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Spreading Faith at Home and in Your Community

As Catholics, our faith is what bonds us together and keeps us grounded in our shared loved of Christ. Through our families and our communities, we grow even stronger in our faith, fostering communities and relationships with the principles and teachings of Christ at their foundation.

For this reason, we should always strive to share our faith with our loved ones, both at home and in our communities.

This is easier said than done, and with pandemic restrictions still in place that prevent large gatherings of unvaccinated individuals, this mission of faith becomes all the more difficult. These obstacles, however, challenge us in ways that promote spiritual and religious growth—even more so in the aftermath of COVID-19 as we attempt to connect once more with the world around us.

How to Share Your Faith with Your Family

To share your faith with the world around you, begin by inviting those closest to you to share in your love of Christ. Whether it be your spouse or your children, there are several ways to share your faith with your family that are both engaging and fulfilling, allowing you strengthen your own faith while introducing the love of God to the people you care most about.

Each week, set aside time to bond with your family members, perhaps around your living area after dinner or, if you have young children, before bedtime.

Some additional ideas to share your faith with your family include the following:
• Reading and studying the Bible as a family
• Attending virtual mass or group devotions
• Praying before family meals

How to Share Your Faith with Members of the Community

Sharing your faith with your community is the first step toward building a more unified group of people within the church and outside of it.

In order to communicate most effectively with your friends, colleagues, and acquaintances in your community, approach each conversation with an open mindset. Never proceed with the attempt to convert the beliefs of someone—rather, you should share the universal principles that drive us as Catholics to become better citizens and, more generally, better people.

In addition to prayer, reading Catholic books encourages thinking and contemplation beyond the Bible, further expanding our understanding of the religious and secular worlds and how they relate to each other. By reading about the stories and perspectives of other faithful, we are able to grow in our love of Christ so that we may better share our faith with others.

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Preparing Your Spirit for Holy Week and Easter Sunday

The weeks leading up to Easter Sunday are a holy period that invites you to celebrate the resurrection of Christ and revel in the love of our family and closest friends. This year, our Easter celebrations must happen a bit differently.

However, it’s still important to prepare your spirit for the holiday, even more so in today’s world. Below are a few simple ways to bring yourself closer to Christ during this holy time.

Actively Participate in Holy Week

Not only is it an obligation for Catholics, but Holy Week is the perfect opportunity to prepare your spirit for Easter Sunday. Actively engaging in the following Holy Week practices with your loved ones will prepare your spirit to accept Christ’s sacrifice and love for us into our lives in the difficult months to come.

Make an Effort to Attend Mass

Depending on your location, attend either a virtual or in-person mass, either by yourself or with a family member. (Don’t forget to remain socially distanced!) If you’re not comfortable with attending a mass in person, there are a number of free online resources you can use to find a virtual mass to pray and reflect this year, such as the Online Mass Finder by Tabella.

Read Relevant Bible Passages Carefully

The gospel is a comforting and illuminating source of light and comfort for us as we navigate difficult situations and dark periods. Below are a few passages for you to reflect on as you prepare to celebrate Christ and his return.

Matthew 28:1–10:

Then Jesus said to them, “Do not be afraid; go and take word to My brethren to leave for Galilee, and there they will see Me.”

Ephesians 2:4–7:

But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved ), and raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the ages to come He might show the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.

Genesis 22:9–14:

“In the mount of the LORD it will be provided.”

Being Grateful in 2021

However you choose to celebrate, keep Christ and his life in your thoughts as you prepare your spirit to accept the Lord’s love and forgiveness, which we need now more than ever.

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The Flying Classroom is Landing at Our Schools

Captain Barrington Irving is in the Guinness Book of World Records for the being the youngest pilot and first black man to fly solo around the world. He was born in Jamaica and raised in Miami where he was a stand-out football player until a pilot that was a mentor challenged Barrington to try flying.

Captain Irving started Flying Classroom to expand the STEM+ curriculum that was available to schools. With specialized expedition leaders zooming into the classrooms twice a week the students get to work through engineering design projects that come in a special kit provided by the Flying Classroom. Each class will get an expedition lesson with embedded activities. Each expedition lesson also has a career connection component to help students learn about the STEM+ professional that is involved.

We have 3 schools that through a special grant are getting a chance to experience these STEM+ activities first-hand, Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Brooklyn, Saints Joachim and Anne and Our Lady of Perpetual Help in South Ozone Park. The Kindergarten through 2nd grade classes will be learning about aerobatic flight school, the Bionic Chef and animal conservation. The 3rd through 5th grade will have the chance to dive into honey bees, water hydrodynamics and regenerative medicine. While the 6th through 8th grade will be tackling the world of sustainable cities, weather and flight plans and the Orbis Flying Hospital.

Captain Irving will also be setting up a Family STEM+ night where the students will bring special kits home and then the family can join a Zoom session to have a learning experience together on the topic of HALO jumps.

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Winter Reflection: Learning from Looking Back:

Reflection is so important to the growth of any child, but especially after the unprecedented events of last year and the beginning of 2021. After such a troubling year, your child needs your support and warmth, but these conversations can be difficult.

You may be experiencing feelings of anxiety yourself, and it’s not often very easy to communicate your reassurances to your child in ways that are both meaningful and helpful. However, there are ways to make starting a dialogue of reflection with your child less painful for both of you.

How to Speak with Your Child about Difficult Topics and Emotions

Asking Questions

In the best of circumstances, talking about emotions is a frightening prospect for so many people, and this doesn’t exclude parents. One of the simplest and most effective ways to reflect on the events of 2020 is to begin by asking children questions to prompt their thinking and encourage thoughtful responses. Below are a few to get you started.

1. What is the most important lesson you learned last year?
2. What were the biggest challenges to overcome? Which were the easiest?
3. What was your least favorite moment of 2020? Which was the best?
4. What skills did you learn during lockdown?
5. How have you grown closer with your family?
6. Who do you miss seeing regularly? What don’t you miss about the “normal” world?
7. What has been your favorite thing to do during lockdown?
8. What are you angry about? What are you grateful for?
9. What things about 2020 made you sad? What things made you happy?
10. If you could travel back in time, what advice would you give yourself?

Writing Down Thoughts and Feelings

It’s easy for big feelings and emotions to bottle themselves up inside – this can be especially true for children, regardless of their age. To encourage your child to express the overwhelming feelings and emotions that came from surviving such a difficult, emotionally draining year, ask them to explore those issues through writing. Doing so will give your child a creative outlet to express themselves while at the same time reflect on a dark period in his or her young life, all while creating a physical record of their strength and perseverance.

Practicing Togetherness in 2021 and Beyond

However you choose to reflect on 2020 with your child, remember to do so with compassion and understanding. Do your best to always be present for your child, and practice togetherness in the new year as a family to bring yourselves closer together in the months to come.

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Are You Craving Spiritual Growth? 3 Tips for Busy Families

In today’s world, the hustle and bustle of our daily lives can feel overwhelming—so much so that we can lose sight of the things that matter most to us, including our faith. When we and our family’s schedules become too full to incorporate the daily spiritual practices of prayer, reflection, and meditation—elements of our faith that are so central to our lives as Catholics—we begin to weaken our relationship with God.

So, how do we overcome this challenge and make time for God? The secret lies in advanced thinking and planning, and, of course, having the will and determination to succeed in growing spiritually.

Below are three tips for busy families to facilitate spiritual growth and strengthen a relationship with God in busy times of constant movement and responsibility.

View Prayer as an Obligation, Not an Option

As with all other elements of your schedule, your commitment to God is a responsibility, so you should put every effort forth to prioritize your spiritual growth every day. Of course, this is easier said than done. When you begin to slip into the habit of viewing your spiritual growth as an option, you run into the danger of putting your faith on the back burner, causing your relationship with God to weaken. One of the most effective ways at prioritizing your relationship with God and your faith is to start actively viewing prayer and reflection as an obligation—to Christ, your family, and also yourself.

Incorporate Prayer into Everyday Family Practices and Traditions

Our children and partners are beacons of hope and determination, and they can do wonders for reviving a sense of urgency within us toward our faith and spiritual growth. To further strengthen your relationship with God, as well as that of your family, strive to incorporate prayer into everyday family practices. Depending on home life and traditions, this can mean something different to each family, but some traditional examples include praying around the dinner table and before bedtime.

Ask for Forgiveness

Perhaps one of the simplest—and most powerful—tips we can offer is to ask forgiveness from God with every prayer. God understands the reality of today’s world and loves us more for it, and it’s so important to demonstrate our gratitude. When we ask for forgiveness in a profound act of vulnerability, we acknowledge not only our limitations, but also our desire to become better in all aspects of our lives, and especially with regard to our relationship to God.

Go forth with the determination to grow within your faith, and you will open yourself and your family up further to accept all that God’s love has to offer us as His followers.

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Catholic School Week Family Letter from the Superintendent

Dear Families,

For the Diocese of Brooklyn, Catholic Schools Week begins February 8th. This is a joyous celebration in Catholic education, when we take time out of the busy day-to-day schedules, to pause and think about the blessings our Catholic Academies and Parish Schools provide to our families. The celebration this year centers on the theme of “Faith. Excellence. Service.” These are the very tenets our Catholic Academies and Parish Schools are built upon. Our celebration this year will certainly be different, but we still seek to share the qualities that set Catholic education apart. While this year has been exceedingly challenging, it has also highlighted the strength of our Catholic Academies and Parish Schools. Their response to the trials of the past year has set us apart from public, charter, and even other private schools. This year especially, we have so much to be grateful for in our schools, and to the families that form our Catholic Academy and Parish School communities.

It is fitting that faith is the first focus in the theme of Catholic Schools Week, as this is the first focus in the mission of Catholic education, with all areas stemming from the belief in and love of Christ. Families are the first teachers in the faith; not only in their religious practices, but in raising their children with love, respect, and a strong sense of morals. We are fortunate to have classrooms filled with students who have already been shown how to walk-in Jesus’ footsteps. It is through these beginnings that teachers can continue to help students grow in their faith. The strong foundation you have provided for your child will carry them into their adult lives. Students in Catholic schools are more likely to be faithful adults, practicing Catholics, and display strong moral fiber, through involvement and volunteerism. A Catholic school foundation is one that allows the faith to carry into future generations.

Excellence is demonstrated in our schools in ways that extend beyond the traditional scope of academics. Academic excellence shines in our Catholic Academies and Parish Schools, but this is only a piece of the puzzle. Catholic education supports the education of the whole child, with the understanding that academics are strong with music, art, athletics, technology, and STEM initiatives.
Through our incredible teachers, Catholic Academies and Parish Schools can offer a variety of programs, which allow students to have unique learning experiences.

We are immeasurably thankful for the teachers, who have demonstrated their excellence over this past year, through their flexibility in their delivery of instruction. We have been through remote, hybrid, and in-person learning and with each change, our faculty and staff have responded to meet the needs of students and families. The very opening of Catholic Academies and Parish Schools to in-person learning, during this school year speaks volumes to the excellence of our schools and the commitment to providing quality education to all students. I would be remiss not to thank our families for the excellence they have shown in their support of teachers and our schools. Parents and guardians have been tasked with many additional jobs this year, in supporting their child’s education. Without this partnership, academic excellence would be impossible. Our students grow not only through the academic excellence provided by teachers, but also through the support which comes from their homes and families.

It is a unique privilege to serve students and families through Catholic education. Service within Catholic Academies and Parish Schools can be viewed in many ways. It is the service of our teachers to the school community, the service of our families in providing for their children, and it is the way students learn to serve others. Acts 20:35 shares with us …remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive… This spirit of giving is alive in our Catholic Academy and Parish School communities, as students learn, not only to give through material items, during events such as food drives, they also learn the importance of the love they give to others. This is once again a reflection of the foundation provided by their families; for a student to understand that the love they give can change the world. Students who are a part of Catholic education are more likely to demonstrate service through volunteering and community engagement and are also more likely to show their love of others, with an increased openness to differences and embracing of others.

Our schools are blessed with families within their communities who make the sacrifice to send their children to Catholic Academies and Parish Schools. This is not always an easy decision, especially during this school year. The gift of sending a child to a Catholic Academy or Parish School is providing them with a foundation for life through faith, excellence, and service; qualities we see reflected not only in our schools but in the families that comprise our school communities.

Thank you for your continued faith in the mission of Catholic education and for entrusting the most precious gift into our school communities, your children.

Yours in Faith,

Thomas Chadzutko

Thomas Chadzutko, Ed.D.
Superintendent ~ Catholic School Support Services

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Bible Study Tips to Teach Your Young Child

Reading and studying the Bible with your child can be one of the most fulfilling and inspiring ways to strengthen and grow within your faith together, as a family. Not only are you encouraging critical thinking and reading schools, but also helping your child understand the Word of God through the lens of love you offer as a parent.

Be your child’s partner as you embark on the journey that is Bible study—by the end of the road, your child will be better equipped to take on more serious religious study in school. He or she will also get to experience God’s love with each passage you work through together.

Below are a few simple Bible study tips to teach your child that will be the foundation of his or her religious study in the years to come.

Be Consistent with Your Study

For any course of study and practice, it’s vital to the success of your child to be consistent. Without causing too much stress on your schedules, stick to a study regimen that works for you. Whether you carve out time each night or once a week, keep to your study schedule and do your best not to deviate from it.

Don’t Place Excessive or Unnecessary Pressure on Yourself or Your Child

Remember: Bible study should be a positive experience for your child—and you, too! Before you embark on the journey of Bible study, evaluate your expectations and adjust them as necessary. What are you hoping to achieve through your study? What are your hopes for your relationship with your child, and for their relationship with God? Be hyperaware of your child’s mindset going into the exercise, and remember that children may not grasp the Bible’s complex ideas and concepts right away… and that’s OK.

Make Bible Study FUN

One of the most effective ways for teaching children is to make your exercises, and there’s no reason Bible study should be any different. In fact, making your Bible study sessions more engaging in this way will encourage your child to view the practice in a more positive way—something to look forward to with their family!

To make Bible study more fun for your child, encourage him or her to draw representations of their thoughts and feelings regarding a particular story. You can also incorporate crafts and activities into your study, like designing bookmarks. In general, keep your questions light and encourage your child to read and respond on their own.

No Matter What, Stay Positive about Your Study

As you work through the tips below, remember this verse for inspiration and guidance:

All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work. (2 Timothy 3:17)

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Setting up 2021 Family Faith Goals

In a time when family has become even more central to our lives amidst the uncertainty of the pandemic, setting up family faith goals will help your household grow even stronger together through prayer.

Before the New Year, contemplate on the elements of your faith that make you feel most connected to your family members – then, aim to nurture those connections through the goals you set as a family. Doing so will bring you closer to God and will make your family a stronger unit to face any obstacle that sits before you in the New Year. Below are a few examples of goals you might set for your family to strengthen your relationship to your faith.

Group Prayer and Meditative Reading

One of the most effective ways to come together as a family, especially around the holidays, is to read scripture together. Set aside time each week for reading together, and aim to discuss a certain aspect of the scripture related to something you’re experiencing currently in your lives, including issues at school, work, and home. Doing so will help you work through potential anxieties and also gives you a chance to celebrate joys and successes. Set aside a quiet space that’s roomy enough for the whole family, but also free from distractions.

Attend Virtual Mass

The pandemic has changed the way we all live, including the way we celebrate the Eucharist. If you live in an area heavily affected by the COVID-19 virus, it’s important to stay home and socially distanced, and so in-person mass may be out of the question. A wonderful alternative, however, is virtual mass. Check with your parish to see if they offer online services that you can attend through a streaming service. If not, consider spearheading the effort with your parish administration. Take charge of your faith in the New Year!

Prayer Before Meals

Eating is a symbolic activity – we gain and give sustenance, and we share it with the people that mean most to us. Before each meal you share with your family, aim to pray together. Thank the Lord for the food you’re about to share with the people you love, and give thanks for all the blessings you’ve received in your life, including the bounty set before you.

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A Christmas Letter From Our Superintendent

Dear Families,

As the Advent season brings us to the celebration of Christmas and the birth of Christ, I invite you to consider the following verse, When they saw the star, they were overjoyed Matthew 2:10. 

Being a parent, and in my case also a grandparent, we are presented with a unique opportunity to witness the pure joy that is a child at Christmastime. For adults, the holiday season is often filled with lists, gift wrapping, and errands. This year has brought additional stress and new challenges to navigate amidst COVID-19 concerns and social distancing. It has become easy for us to forget the joy of the moment. Children can see the world as we cannot; with an innocence and excitement for these celebrations. During the beginning of December, I decorated my Christmas tree with my young grandchildren. The moment the lights were turned on, I was greeted with excited yells and laughter. I couldn’t help but smile at their happiness, over something as simple as Christmas lights. This pure joy is the joy we should all feel during this time of year. Our children (and grandchildren) are the light in our lives, just as Jesus is a light for all people. 

We often forget, amidst the shopping lists and errands that we are celebrating Jesus coming into the world.  Jesus is the greatest gift God has provided for us.  The light and hope that his birth brought to the world, as described in the verse from Matthew, is a sentiment we should bring into our lives always, but especially during the Christmas season. I encourage you, throughout the coming days and weeks, to take time in your busy day, to pause and reflect on the meaning of the season.  Look to your children for the joy we all need and embrace the small moments that make this time of year so special. 

I wish you a very Merry Christmas filled with peace, joy, and special family moments, and a happy, healthy New Year. We are looking forward to welcoming in the new year with you. 

In Christ,

Thomas Chadzutko, Ed.D.
Superintendent ~ Catholic School Support Services

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Celebrating Christmas 2020 to the Fullest

An uncertain and frightening year has brought with it an opportunity to celebrate the holidays in a new light. The pandemic has affected each person differently, leaving the world with much to grieve, but also much for which to be thankful.

This Christmas, it will be important for us all to recall memories from previous years and to revel in the joy and nostalgia. It’s a time to come together, through faith and love, to celebrate the birth of Christ and what it means for each Catholic and his or her unique and precious relationship with God.

This year, the coming-together aspect of the holidays may be look different, but through faith and prayer, we all can celebrate Christmas 2020 and our savior safely. Below are a few creative ideas to celebrate the holidays fully despite each obstacle placed before us by this unprecedented year.

Christmas Zoom Toast

One of the best ways to stay connected with the people you love outside of your social distancing bubble is to communicate videoconferencing software such as Zoom. Up to 100 participants can join the call, allowing you to see the smiling faces of your entire family or friend group. Play Christmas music in the background and reminisce about the year and those past.

Go Overboard on the Decorating

Now more than ever, we need the cheer and joy of the holidays, and what better way to spread the Christmas spirit than through an above-and-beyond Christmas display? If you and your family normally just pull the Christmas tree out of storage and throw up a few string lights in front yard, consider spicing the season up with extra garland or lights in creative spots around your home, such as the staircase, bedrooms, or kitchen. Whether it’s a opting for a fresh-cut Christmas tree or trying out a new recipe this Christmas dinner, make this year special for all the right reasons.

Make a Commemorative Ornament with Your Children

For better or for worse, this year’s holiday season will be one to remember. In the years to come, your children will look back on how 2020 has impacted them and the world around them. On the back of the decorated ornament, have your children write out in paint or marker the things they are most thankful for, or things they hope for the year to come.

While Christmas this year will be unlike any other, there are so many ways and reasons to chase the spirit of the holidays and the absolute joy it can bring us all.